A Mirror

Read each question slowly. Sit with it before writing. These are not questions to answer quickly.

Question 1

When was the last significant moment in your life that you have no photograph of? How do you remember it? What details are in the memory? *(This is listening for the texture and quality of unmediated memory versus documented memory.)*

Question 2

Think of a recent experience you documented carefully. How much of that experience do you actually remember with your body rather than with the images? *(This is listening for the gap between documentation and presence.)*

Question 3

Is there a person in your life who you are always photographing but rarely simply being with? *(This is listening for the camera as a relational distance-management strategy.)*

Question 4

What would it mean for your professional identity to be unrecorded? To do excellent work that leaves no visible trace? *(This is listening for whether significance depends on documentation, which is the deeper question beneath the camera.)*

Question 5

Describe a moment from your childhood that no camera captured. What do you remember about it? *(This is listening for the quality of embodied memory versus mediated memory. The reader will often notice, with some surprise, that the undocumented memories are the most vivid.)*

Weekly Practice

Read one of these each morning this week. Before the phone.

Day 1 I noticed how often I observe my life instead of live it.
Day 2 I put the camera down and was simply present.
Day 3 I asked what I am afraid to feel directly.
Day 4 I stepped into a moment instead of documenting it.
Day 5 I stopped narrating and started living.
Day 6 I let myself be in the picture, not behind it.
Day 7 I am willing to live it, not just record it.

My Notes

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