A Mirror

Read each question slowly. Sit with it before writing. These are not questions to answer quickly.

Question 1

What is the name you call yourself when you are alone and the performance stops? Not your professional name, not the name on the biography. The name underneath the name. *(This is listening for whether the reader has an inner life that is distinct from the public identity.)*

Question 2

What did you do between the ages of eight and twelve that you no longer do? *(This is listening for the suppressed self through the vehicle of childhood play and creativity.)*

Question 3

Is there a version of you that your oldest friends knew that you have largely retired? *(This is listening for the gap between the original person and the constructed professional.)*

Question 4

When you avoid being alone and quiet, what are you avoiding? *(This is listening for what lives in the silence.)*

Question 5

What would the ekerentane, the unwanted child, the original self before the credentials, want you to know? *(This is a direct invitation; the listening depends on the reader's willingness to go there.)*

Weekly Practice

Read one of these each morning this week. Before the phone.

Day 1 I named the person I have been avoiding.
Day 2 I asked why being truly known feels dangerous.
Day 3 I let one person call me by my real name.
Day 4 I stopped hiding from the people who see me.
Day 5 I moved toward, not away from, being known.
Day 6 I let an old song be heard again.
Day 7 I am willing to be known by the one who knows my name.

My Notes

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